When two becomes one <3
- Trixcel
- Mar 31, 2015
- 7 min read
We have been friends ever since 2011 from a online radio that we are both listening to which is Teeradio a online radio with a public chat where we met. I was a Moderator in it and becomes a Dj eventually. We started talking just as normal friends like any other listeners in the site. It was nice talking to you even though we both know how we are with other people. But we never thought dating each other back then as you were courting one of my friend and I was definitely not interested in any form of relationship then. It was indeed pure friendship at first. I even knew all you past girlfriends in our radio station. Got along just fine. Back then we never even thought on hanging out together as a couple but as friends we might have been. But we didn't got a chance to because of our schedule as we were both on college. And atlast we were able to meet when our radio station held a meet up
Pass forward to what we are now, everything went easy with us from our first trip for a site seeing in Tagaytay (Philippines2015) we were not official then. But it seems to be like it. Exclusively dating I guess. That time we already knew we will be soon a couple maybe that is the reason its easy to act so normal even we were meeting again since the last time in 2011. It was indeed a perfect trip for me. I wanted to go to that place and you took me there; one thing I most like about you. :) it was also the first bunch of photos of us being exclusive to each other. And the Trixcel travels begins. Trixcel the product of our names combined Trixia And Racel on the date. March 31 2015.
First date at Tagaytay March 1,2015
As for our family we both have a big and happy family. That we both didn't had a hard time fitting in. it was nice travelling a long way to meet his relatives and get along with them. They love the beach also which is great, because we both know that we loved the beach. It was nice knowing them and got a chance to spent a few days in their place. Everyone is so accommodating and I will cherish every bit of the experience I had there.
here are some photos Morong Bataan April 5, 2015
Indang Cavite April 20 2015
In every family event of trip we are together either on his side or my side of family. From the start of our dating journey we decided to attend each event together as a couple.
Puerto Galera May 13, 2015
Puzzle Museum May 1, 2015
And everything just flows smoothly, we became a couple. We never left each others side since then. It was indeed perfect. We both love to travel, eat and experience things for the first time together. Things seems so easy when we do it both, we enjoyed every bit of it.
Sky Ranch May 1, 2015
And though we both have a tight schedule at work we still manage to sneak a little time for each other and go to places and explore, eat and took photos for remembrance. It is one of the things that we both enjoy doing even if it is tiring but its all worth it as long as we are together.
And as for him meeting my family. He instantly have a connection to them. Well I have no doubt he can get along with them. He is just so easy with other people. He knows how to blend in and not got out of place. He has been in few of our celebrations such as Christmas and reunions. It was a joy to me how my family and my guy are genuinely close now. they all know him and definitely made a bond. he had a chance to meet the most important persons in my life most especially my Mom which liked him already the first time I brought him to our hometown. At the same time he also met my best friends which is so important to me also. I am happy for that.
here are some photos of us with my family and friends: starting in the year 2015-2019
But just like any other couple we do encounter problem. As for us, we try not to dwell on each problem that we face. We even go through the rough patch where we constantly argue on simple things. But after that trials we choose to stay and grow more stronger with each other. We support each other in the most that we can. We argue we fight we kiss we makeup. thats the cycle but we never choose to break up. We may seem to be a perfect couple to others but we do still have flaws that we choose to embrace and deal within the both of us. Because we know above of it all its all comes down between us two if we could stay or not in this relationship. Its been a adventure being in this relationship. One of the most perfect that I have ever been in. We both know by that time that we wanted each other for the longest time. We even stayed together in a apartment to see if we we're still be compatible. And after all the hardships living together, yes we did, we survive, and we loved it.
This is the part where everything begin to be serious :) after almost a year in our relationship. He POP THE QUESTION;; and ofcourse who am I to say NO? He is the one I wanted to be with, to become my husband, a father of my child and may forever. So I said YES :) We we're engaged on the 14th of January 2016
As always we still keep on traveling for our relationship not to lose fire. Its one thing that both of us are enjoying most especially we are together accomplishing and doing new things.
Puerto galera May 12, 2016
Baguio October 30, 2016
New Zealand December 2016 - January 2017
Our future are still yet to come. We have unite for the better and start planning. Until the day we become one, that would complete both of our lives, we still stay as we are before. In love and strong. Cheers to the future trips and more experiences to trixcel may all of our dream and goals come true; as we thrive to be the best version of ourselves without sacrificing our relationship.
Fortunately my now husband had been lucky enough to be referred to toyota and able to get the job offered to him as he has all the knowledge they needed that time for a mechanic. Though I have a work back in philippines I have to give that up to support my husband's application I needed to be there to help him decide to stay thinking its all for our future. But letting go of my work back home is not easy but thinking of my husband that he needs me there for support is what my priority is. After my visa expires I needed to go back to Philippines, that have been the hardest part where we need to be away from each other that we never have before. I wasn't there when he got this 3years visa on March 21st 2017 but i was there when he was just processing the papers.
facebook chats and video calls had help a lot at this times that we are apart. But we missed each other a lot that we decided that I will visit him again back in newzealand. Seeing and knowing him getting homesick pains me. That is why I did my best to get a visa to comfort him again. Though I am only given a limited visa for 1 month I grabbed it the important thing is I can be with him again even for a certain time only.
And so I came back. August 18, 2017
After meeting again its the right time that we decided to save up for our wedding that is dated December 2018. at first we have not yet picked a date. but the process on getting in set up took about a year of preparation. Actually the wedding is planned not that early we are thinking about the year 2019. But the distance between us made us decide to do it earlier as we cannot deal being apart for that long.
The wedding preparation:
Year 2018 is the start of our wedding preparation where in I have to be away from him and manage all the requirements and set up for the wedding here in the philippines.
First Phase: Pre-nup photoshoot at the Fortune island in Nasugbu batangas
I have contacted my wedding coordinator, suppliers, our wedding clothes for the bride and groom as well as the sponsors and the reception design. All of it was organised by me. True enough a year passed by so fast that we have to finalise the date of the wedding. and atlast December 8, 2018 seems to be perfect that's why we choose it. Everything is going fine until the municipality of my local place told me both of the couple should be there for the wedding seminar. So out of our plan my husband went back to the Philippines to settle our last requirement for the wedding, then it is settled and ready for the ceremony.
DECEMBER 8, 2018 "THE WEDDING"
After the wedding we decided to explore again in puerto galera philippines December 9, 2018. with his cousins and co-worker from new zealand.
And we are able to celebrate christmas and new year together here in the philippines that means so much to me, knowing he will go back to new zealand anytime soon.
Now that we are married and everything is settled, our next goal is to end the distance that we are having now and be together, that has been the main reason why we got married in the first place; to be by each others side forever.
And the fairy-tale continues...
After a few months of waiting, the time has come for me to go where my husband is; New Zealand. The long awaited time is all worth it as I know I will be with the two most especial person in my life my husband and my mother. All of my recent engagement with my current company that time has been processed and I soon after resigned from the job. June 19, 2019 is the day of my flight and all is well.
The following photos have dates indicated when and sometimes where the photos are taken. From the moment I arrived back to new zealand until present. enjoy.
Ever since I got back here, seems like nothing is changed, same old friends and even new ones are adding up to the group. Most of the time our weekends are spent with friends and sometimes its just us couple. Its the life we always dream about having.
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